I have some news...
I am pregnant. I found out just one hour ago. I... don't know what the hell I'm gonna do. The guy I did it with won't even talk to me, I tried to explain it to him over the phone, but he just hung up. I am shit scared...
No, I kid ya. xD I'm not pregnant.
But! I do have some thoughts.
If this actually happened to me, that I fooled around with some dude, and let's say he poked a hole in the rubber and I got pregnant... Should I be allowed to take abortion?
Are you for or against abortion?
I, personally, am for abortion. I think this is an option that should be available. Some people who are against it says it's a violation of human life, which I can understand, but I still don't support it. Abortion should be optional, it's should be a woman's choice if she want to do this or not (not that this should be turned into a new sort of "protection", but in cases where it's needed).
What's your opinion on this?
This is suction abortions affect on second term fetus's. Before then doesn't make me as sad, but after that...
I used to think of rape as an exception too, but I heard something that's changing my mind. Aborting a child that was conceived through a rape is basically punishing the BABY for a crime committed by its father.
If really needed, then I'll consider it ok.
For example, a lovely lady and a gentleman just had safe sex, but it didn't worked for X and X reasons and she's pregnant. It's not like they weren't trying and they wanted that to happen.
Second example: Another couple had sex, but didn't care about protections, "if I get pregnant, the hell, I'll just go get an abortion" now that's some thinking I dislike.
Ya, I say it's good to have I as a choice. I mean, WHO has the right to say what you can or can't do with it? It's yours. YOU would have to go through the grueling 9 months with it. And besides, what if a girl got raped? She would be forced to keep the baby if abortion wasn't a choice. And wouldn't that be a nice 9 month reminder?
but I do agree it shouldn't be a form of birth control.
I've never been pregnant (thank god) and so I don't know personally, but I would get an abortion. but in no way would I feel completely guilt free. it would be pretty traumatizing. it IS a very serious thing.
I say abortion should be legal across the board, as well as very complete sex education and free contraception, so it doesn't become the new bc
In Sweden we've recently had a debate going on because someone did abortions twice when she found out that it was gonna be a girl. That makes me angry. People should be allowed abortion only based on the question "Do you really want a child?".