I have some news...
I am pregnant. I found out just one hour ago. I... don't know what the hell I'm gonna do. The guy I did it with won't even talk to me, I tried to explain it to him over the phone, but he just hung up. I am shit scared...
No, I kid ya. xD I'm not pregnant.
But! I do have some thoughts.
If this actually happened to me, that I fooled around with some dude, and let's say he poked a hole in the rubber and I got pregnant... Should I be allowed to take abortion?
Are you for or against abortion?
I, personally, am for abortion. I think this is an option that should be available. Some people who are against it says it's a violation of human life, which I can understand, but I still don't support it. Abortion should be optional, it's should be a woman's choice if she want to do this or not (not that this should be turned into a new sort of "protection", but in cases where it's needed).
What's your opinion on this?
I have had friends who have had an abortion. One HAD to because the pregnancy was hurting her. The other... just did it because she didn't want a baby.
Honestly, if its a thing like health or something like that. Rape. Boy friend pressure. Then yeah, I can say I'd be okay with it, even though I don't like it.
But, if you are silly and don't use protection because it hinders the pleasure and us the 'it could NEVER happen to me' excuse, then I'd feel against it.
But for me, I don't judge. How can I? I don't know what I'd do in my own situation if it happened.
If anyone objects to it because it's killing life, they're hypocrites. Bacteria, viruses,and germs are killed on them and the rest of us every single day. Not to mention trees die for the paper they use and even the coal or oil they use came from once living creatures. There is no way to be entirely pro-life. ( These *generally*, not always, are the same people that support war, so they're killing the people the babies grow into anyway.)
Personally, I'm in support of it just because I know even if it were banned people would still find ways to do it, and those ways may not be safe. So keeping it available is the best way to keep people alive.
Using it like birth control and having it done all the time, like some people have brought up, is not cool and not right, those people should have something done to ensure they don't have children period, they're abusing it.
But I also believe that abortion should not be done after a certain point, but I forget what it was (second trimeseter, that kind of thing). I also believe that it would be better if you let the child have a chance at life. If you are unable to care for it, then let someone who is absolutely unable to have a kid adopt the baby and give the baby a better life than what you could give.
I hated babies and children of all kinds.
I figured that I'd rather die than have a baby.
And I figured that women could do whatever they wanted with their bodies because that's their property. (I still believe this)
Then I had a pregnancy scare. The condom broke. I missed my period.
Turns out it was nothing, but during that time, I was scared shitless, and thinking about my options.
And try as I might, I could not imagine destroying this thing that might be growing inside me. Even as my boyfriend urged me, I told him I would leave him and raise the child on my own if he would not help me. Even if it ruined my own life, I'd make sure the child had a good life.
I am extremely grateful that I was not pregnant at that time, because I have no idea how I would have successfully raised a child. My parents wouldn't have offered any help. and to top things off, I discovered my boyfriend had been cheating on me not a month after that whole ordeal.
But all of this is in the past ^^
Now, 5 years later, (and much more mature I might add
Um, I'm against abortion...my reasons? I don't know the thought of killing babies makes me sad and think about women who can't have babies they'd want to adopt?
But, yeah..